Sincerely, I think we were allowed such an amount of play because our parents and older siblings saw us as disturbances at home, so for this reason the door was always opened for us to go play. I don't think our parents knew of any benefits of play. But thanks to instinct!
I was very shy as a kid but I remember I never used to be shy when I played with my friends, probably the 'plays' I had then made me overcome shyness. Through play, I was able to listen and learn of some African folk tales. But today, children mostly play indoors with lots of toys and technological gadgets. Due to the security situation, children no more have the freedom to play in the neighbourhood. Staying indoors always will prevent children from having a feel of nature. The amount of play I had as a child help me relate well with people because I was able to socialize while I played.
I hope to be an advocate in this area and sincerely wish that the old era of play be restored.
The following quotes summarize my 'play life' as a kid:
''You can't stop the future,
You can't rewind the past,
The only way to learn the secret is to press play''. Jah Asher
''Combinatory play seems to be the essential feature in productive thought''. Albert Einstein
''Play gives children a chance to practice what they are learning''. Mr. Rogers
''The creation of something new is not accomplished by the intellect but by the play instinct''. Carl Jung
''Play is often talked about as if it were a relief from serious learning. But for children play is serious learning. Play is really the work of children.'' Fred Rogers
''Do not keep children to their studies by compulsion but by play.'' Plato
As a kid, I enjoyed pretend play
We do have some similarities! As a kid we played outside all the time! Especially in our neighborhood. Children need to be outside! I get upset when we as parents do not feel safe to let our children play outside. But like I said I am the mom who will go to the park with my kiddos!
ReplyDeleteI live on the coast as well and have enjoyed taking my children to the beach as well. I enjoy being in the outdoors with my little ones. When I was a child we had to stay outside and were told if we came in we had to help clean the house. LOL... I find myself saying that to my little ones when they start running in and out.
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